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"He has a child and he's in Afghanistan and he's fighting the terrorists and he's a pilot, and I thought my prayers had been answered," Schuster said. Eventually, Smith asked Schuster to wire him some money to help support his daughter. She had sent him nearly ,000 before she finally realized the whole thing was a scam.
She began a relationship online with a military officer serving in Afghanistan named Adam Smith.
"I was really embarrassed that I could let this happen to me." Before you say to yourself, "That could never happen to me," consider the fact that the FBI recorded some 15,000 romance scams last year, a jump of 2,500 from the year before. Because it is practically impossible nowadays to date without some use of the internet, experts warn that you need to take precautions before jumping into the dating game.
"I was pretty upset because I felt so excited that I thought that I had met somebody," she said.
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Accessing that script from a third party domain requires an additional DNS lookup (which can be costly)."A lot of countries have economic conditions that drive people to do these types of things.And I think as a result of that, there's a market for it and it's easier for people to get sort of teams of people lined up to do these types of scams." The reddest flag Skilled scam artists are patient.They ask for money, like "Adam Smith" did with Lilo Schuster. "You feel like you're contributing to your relationship, that you're helping his daughter be able to go on a trip that he couldn't provide for her, but, you know, he'll pay me back is what he had said," she recalled. If someone you are dating — online or otherwise — asks you for money, do not give it."I would say, 99-plus percent of the time, the answer would be, 'I'm sorry, I can't send you any money.' I can't really envision a scenario when that's anything other than a scam," Hood said.They will invest months into a relationship, seemingly asking for nothing in return.